Wednesday, October 24, 2012

hey old white republican dudes

shut the fuck up about rape. Seriously. You don't know what you are talking about.


I am sick and tired of hearing the word "rape" when I am watching the morning news for weather/traffic, and knowing that it isn't because someone gives a shit about rape victims. It ruins my day to know that some asshole with political power said something incredibly insensitive on a national scale. Victims of rape are subjected to a lack of social support which includes rude and insensitive comments in their personal lives. Now they can't have it stop there, famous politicians have to rub some salt into the wound by repeating the same stupidity. Some are in a place where it makes it impossible to function for a day or two when they are subjected to this. The fact that so many people hate you for what someone else chose to do can be bearable when you aren't being reminded of it every five minutes.

The republican party is showing its true colors more and more as the rape apologist party, and men  in general don't seem to care much about that either. They are siding with republicans more frequently, apparently able to ignore the way that republican policy would treat the women in their lives. No one in the news media is taking this fight to the presidential candidates, despite the fact that Romney likely handed out The Miracle of Forgiveness to victims of sexual assault during his time as bishop in the LDS church. The book says that unless you fought to the death, you are partly to blame for being raped and must repent. It fits right in to all these other misogynist narratives of rape that republicans are letting loose so often these days.

None of the asshats who feel compelled to lecture rape victims about pregnancy stepped up to condemn this man, a major fundraiser for the republican party in Utah who had been accused of kidnapping and rape by five different women. The dude killed himself today and his attorneys whined about the "one sided" news coverage pushing him too far, as if a full statement from his attorneys being played at every fucking update wasn't enough to count as objective in their view. I had to turn the TV on mute most days that they played something because it was nothing but bullshit about how the women were simply confused about having been held captive at a cabin and raped repeatedly. Someone left this gem of a comment on the salt lake tribune page about the suicide:

Now he is in Hell with all the liberals that murdered those yet to be born.

Nice. Women who vote republican need to look around and see the kind of woman hating scum they are surrounded by and realize that it isn't a fuck up here and there that causes these comments, its an ideological commitment to the oppression of women. Men hate you.

8 comments:

  1. @ "The book says that unless you fought to the death, you are partly to blame for being raped and must repent."

    I thought the Republicans were against the Islamists. In Arabic / Islamic countries, a woman must fight to the death against a rapist or else be stoned to death (or be murdered by her father, brothers, male cousins). But this fight to the death can only be her own death. If she kills her rapist, she then gets stoned for murder. Lovely that Romney et al only ask repentance of a woman who didn't fight against rape until she died. Wonder what they have in store for women who kill the man who is trying to rape them?

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  2. It's awful, but I don't think that most men care about rape unless it happens to their mothers, sisters, or daughters.

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  3. I started thinking the Republican party sucked when Reagan was elected in 1980 after he said he opposed the ERA. I was 10 at the time.

    Republican men should keep in mind that hatred and fear are closely related.

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  4. "The republican party is showing its true colors more and more as the rape apologist party, and men in general don't seem to care much about that either."

    "It's awful, but I don't think that most men care about rape unless it happens to their mothers, sisters, or daughters."

    I agree, it is awful that you think that Miss Margo. This generalizing about men as being somewhat sociopathic and devoid of empathy in general is very upsetting. Who exactly is most likely to physically hunt down, prosecute, and then guard in jail mail rapists? Although females do this as well, it is not controversial that, currently, men are the majority of law enforcement, prosecuting attorneys, and guards in male prisons.

    The perpetrators are overwhelmingly men, but if you include prison rape into the equation, many men are raped everyday (any many of these men raped are in jail for nonviolent offenses, and my hypothesis would be that those in jail for nonviolent offenses are more likely to be rape victims than those in jail for violent offenses). I'm sure they care about rape, if not purely for selfish reasons.

    http://freethoughtblogs.com/almostdiamonds/2012/02/12/mras-still-wrong-on-prison-rape/

    Rape perpetration seems to segregate along lines delineated by sex, but being a rape victim, feeling for rape victims, and doing something about rape certainly is not.

    I predict this post will be interpreted as "but what about men?", but perspective and truth is my absolute defense. Sorry, but you pissed me off, and I won't stand back and simply listen to female perspectives on all issues that have traditionally been staked out as within their "camp".

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  5. mail should be male, obviously

    typo

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  6. Interesting exercise. Google

    man saves woman from rape

    or

    man saves woman from rapist

    This guy is a particular bad ass.

    http://artofmanliness.com/trunk/687/gorkha-soldier-saves-girl-from-rape-and-takes-on-40-train-robbers-with-only-a-khukuri/

    Sweeping generalizations about men in a world with many very decent people (of both sexes) will not go very well.

    It is fairly safe to say that the number of men willing to risk their safety to save a woman from rape very likely VASTLY outnumbers the number of men that would commit rape.

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  7. The previous link was the first from the google search of

    man saves woman from rape

    here are the next 3 that came up (out of 6 million plus hits).

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r92FlyIEC-Y

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WW61oU6el7U

    http://www.theblaze.com/stories/former-marine-saves-woman-from-rape-in-queens/

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  8. Hi DubV. I just read your responses to my comment. Who knows if you'll read this; maybe the thread is dead.

    It is too bad that you are pissed off, because I like you quite a bit (for an internet friend, lol) and would not do something to intentionally antagonize you.

    "This generalizing about men as being somewhat sociopathic and devoid of empathy in general is very upsetting."

    I don't think men are, in general, either somewhat sociopathic OR devoid of empathy. That is not what I meant by my statement.

    I based that statement on my personal experience and observation, nothing more: I seldom hear men advocate against rape, or even talk about it aside from the prominent cases in the media (like the Duke lacrosse case). Most of the serious discussion about rape that I hear comes from women. That is what I have experienced.

    I don't know--do men talk about this amongst themselves, moreso than in mixed company?

    And I do not ascribe "not caring" to sociopathic tendency. I meant that it seems to me that men don't think a lot about rape unless it has personally touched their lives. It doesn't appear to be big on the radar, unless it is deliberately brought to attention.

    I could be wrong. In fact, I truly hope that I am.

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